You Can't Have Me, I'm Not Done Yet, I'm Too Strong!

Understanding Adult ADD: Navigating Life with Attention Deficit Disorder

Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD), often discussed in dealing with children, can be just as impactful for adults. While many people associate ADD with hyperactivity and impulsivity, adult ADD—now commonly referred to as ADHD, Inattentive Type—has its own set of challenges and nuances.

What Is Adult ADD?

Adult ADD is described as a persistent inattention and distractibility, often without the hyperactive or impulsive symptoms more commonly seen in children with ADHD. This is made known in various ways, including:

Consistent Disorganization: Difficulty keeping track of tasks, appointments, or personal belongings.

Difficulty Focusing: Struggling to concentrate and follow through with projects.

Time Management Issues: Trouble managing time effectively, leading to procrastination or missed deadlines.

Forgetfulness: Regularly forgetting important dates, names, or instructions.

Impulsivity in Decision-Making: Making hasty decisions without fully considering the consequences.

How It Affects Daily Life

I was diagnosed with Adult ADD when I was in college. I did not have the attention I needed to read the text books. My memory was troubling and I was struggling to keep up with the curriculum. The lack of concentration was the biggest issue. I could not stay focused on the smallest of things. I was having a very difficult time completing assignments on time and in their entirety. Work was very challenging as I could not remember tasks and procedures in everyday assignments. Things I once knew seemed foreign to me. My memory issues proved to be a major problem and I eventually ended up moving on from that position at work.

Adult ADD can significantly impact different areas of life. At work, it might lead to challenges in completing projects, maintaining organization, or meeting deadlines. In personal relationships, it can cause misunderstandings or frustration due to missed commitments or forgetfulness. It can also affect self-esteem and mental health, contributing to feelings of frustration, inadequacy, or anxiety. I definitely felt my self-esteem lessen and it exacerbated the effects of the bipolar disorder. Anxiety sets in and that just makes everyday life even more difficult to navigate.

Diagnosis and Treatment

Diagnosing adult ADD can be complex, as many of the symptoms overlap with other mental health conditions or life stressors. An evaluation by a mental health professional is essential. This typically involves a detailed history of symptoms, their impact on daily life, and sometimes, input from family members. I met with a mental health professional and he conducted several tests including; psychological testing, a cognitive exam, and a computer program test.

 

Treatment for adult ADD usually includes a combination of:

Medication: Stimulants and non-stimulants can help manage symptoms. The choice of medication is tailored to individual needs and response.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT can be effective in helping adults with ADD develop organizational skills, improve time management, and address negative thought patterns.

Lifestyle Adjustments: Strategies such as creating routines, using organizational tools, and breaking tasks into smaller steps can be beneficial.

 

Coping Strategies

Living with adult ADD involves developing strategies to manage symptoms effectively. Here are some tips:

Create a Structured Routine: Use planners, apps, or reminders to keep track of tasks and appointments. A consistent daily routine can help reduce chaos.

Break Tasks into Manageable Steps: Large tasks can be overwhelming. Breaking them into smaller, more manageable steps can make them feel more achievable.

Set Clear Goals: Establish specific, achievable goals and prioritize them. This helps maintain focus and track progress.

Practice Mindfulness: Techniques such as meditation or mindfulness can help improve concentration and reduce stress.

Seek Support: Joining a support group or working with a therapist can provide valuable insights and coping strategies.

Embracing Strengths

While adult ADD presents challenges, it also comes with unique strengths. People with ADD often exhibit creativity, spontaneity, and the ability to think outside the box. Embracing these strengths and finding ways to use them to your advantage can help create a fulfilling and productive life. I lean on an increase in creativity from the ADD (and especially when I am in a manic episode due to bipolar.) During these times I feel more energetic and more full of ideas. Although a lot of the time things seem jumbled inside my head, I am able to come up with solutions and different ways to do things. This has proven to be beneficial in my work.

Moving Forward

Living with adult ADD requires understanding, patience, and proactive management. By recognizing the symptoms, seeking appropriate treatment, and using effective coping strategies, individuals with ADD can navigate their challenges and harness their strengths to lead successful and satisfying lives.

 

If you or someone you know is struggling with symptoms of adult ADD, consider reaching out to a healthcare professional for support and guidance. With the right tools and strategies, managing adult ADD is not only possible but can lead to personal growth and resilience.